Hey, my name is Eli Finer. I’m the founder of Wuju, and I’m going to teach you how you can get unstuck every time you lose motivation — without resorting to self-discipline. We all intuitively know that self-discipline is a limited resource, and if you… Read More »How to be unstoppable
I wrote the following as I was going through an emotional release to try to document my own internal process in case other people find it useful. It all starts with a thought. I can’t do anything right. Objectively it’s obviously not true, but right… Read More »It all starts with a thought
It’s your birthday, you take a long look at your life and realize you’re nowhere near you wanted to be by this point. You might be in your 20’s, 30’s or 40’s and your love life, your career or your financial situation is in the… Read More »Shifts in perspective
It sometimes feels like the whole world is conspiring against us, and nothing goes right. The problem is that the thought of everything going wrong causes even more things to go wrong. It’s not magic, it’s a matter of attention. When we are consumed by… Read More »When everything goes wrong
This poster on Reddit asked if people actually enjoyed raising kids. I couldn’t resist and I think you might enjoy my answer. Alright, I’ll bite. I’ve got a rambunctious 6 year old boy and a newborn baby girl who’s just over 3 weeks old and… Read More »Raising kids
Sometime all you need is to realize you’re absolutely not okay with the way things are to start making changes. You can’t change the past or the decisions that you’ve already made, but you’re starting from here, from right now, and you can choose a… Read More »It’s never too late
A girl on Reddit tells a story about her partner who’s apparently looking for a place to rent for himself, claiming he’s just out of a relationship – while in a committed, long term relationship with her. Maybe you’re in a relationship and like this… Read More »Rocking the boat
Today is an especially rough day for me, filled with doubt and uncertainty. After spending a couple of months talking to potential users for Wuju and trying to understand who it is good for, I feel I’m still nowhere close to the answer and I’m… Read More »Doubt and uncertainty
Just had an amazing conversation today with Nick Rimza who told me about a project he’s working on. Say you’re an entrepreneur just starting out – you have an idea, but you haven’t started building anything and you obviously don’t have any customers to speak… Read More »Progress reports
Our culture doesn’t look fondly on tears, especially for grown men. “The only kind of crying you can allow yourself in front of a woman, is the James Dean kind – eyes wide open, staring into the distance, one lone tear rolling down your face”… Read More »Crying to freedom